During a divorce, child custody is often one of the most contentious areas of dispute. However, understanding their rights and obligations can help ex-spouses remain civil and ensure that the well-being of the entire family is protected. Here are four points to remember about child custody during the dissolution of a marriage. The guidance of an
attorney who is experienced in
family law can also ease this challenging situation.
1. Co-parenting is good for children.
Research shows that children of divorce whose parents share a cooperative relationship feel secure, benefit from consistency between two households, have a healthy example of relationships and problem-solving, and are healthier mentally and emotionally than children whose divorced parents are in frequent conflict with one another.
2. Joint legal custody is not the same as joint physical custody.
Parents seeking joint custody should understand the different types promoted by the court system. Joint legal custody means that important decisions about the child's education, medical care, and welfare are shared equally between the parents. Joint physical custody, on the other hand, refers to equal parenting time. Parents can have joint legal custody without also having joint physical custody, and parents who want both are often required to collaborate on a parenting plan that will be approved by the court.
3. It's not always necessary to go to court.
Parents who are able to come to an agreement about child custody, often with the assistance of a joint attorney or separate attorneys, do not need to submit to a judge's decision about custody. If additional help with negotiation is needed, many families are able to take advantage of mediation. This structured process helps ex-spouses reach an agreement with the facilitation of a trained mediator.
4. Decisions are made based on the child's best interest.
For those who are unable to reach an agreement, the family court judge will make a decision about child custody. He or she uses a metric known as the "best interest of the child," which takes the following parental factors into account:
- Living situation
- Existing relationship with the child
- Willingness to support the child's relationship with the other parent
- Age of child or children involved
- Preferences of the child, especially those who are older
- Stability
The court will also consider existing evidence of abuse or neglect.
Even in a volatile divorce, it's essential for ex-spouses to separate emotions from behavior when it comes to child custody. Keep these four guidelines in mind to help navigate the rough waters of divorce, and
contact Medeiros & Associates Lawyers for guidance throughout the process.